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FSHD – Spencer Wyckoff Competes in ANW to Raise Awareness

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Group Selfie Spence Wyckoff Family and Friends FSHDMy husband and I are big fans – for many reasons – of a family who lives right down the street from us – the Wyckoff family. We are also American Ninja Warrior fans. So when we saw that the Wyckoff’s oldest child, Spencer, was picked to compete on this year’s show of American Ninja Warrior being taped in Atlanta, it became a no brainer – we were there.

What’s more, and this came as no surprise . . . the primary purpose for Spencer’s participation in ANW is to raise awareness of a muscular disease called Facioscapulohumera or FSHD. His sister, Carden, was diagnosed with FHSD when she was 8 years old. She will soon be 23 and continues to fight it with courage and grace each and every day.

Spencer received some great news today from ANW about their plans to help raise awareness of FSHD. You can read about American Ninja Warrior’s plans here.

You can also help raise awareness of FSHD by learning about it on the FSH Society website, and sharing what you’ve learned with your family and friends. Thank you.

#FSHDninja #cureFSH #FSHSociety

Each Day Is A New Day Full of Choices

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Choices Quote Nick VujicicFor most of us, how we approach each day, as we get out of bed in the morning, is up to us. We must make choices about what we think and do. Deciding is so much easier if we have purpose.

When the alarm rings at 6AM each day for CJ Stewart, he is ready for a new day because he has purpose. As CEO and Co-Founder of L.E.A.D., his purpose is based on his dream to empower an at-risk generation of young, black males from the inner city of Atlanta to lead and transform their city of Atlanta, and eventually the world. Some say his dream is too lofty, and that he is crazy to think he can realize it. However, through L.E.A.D., together with his wife, Kelli, its board and a host of supporters a positive culture is emerging among young black boys in Atlanta that is showing every indication that CJ’s dream is becoming reality. Find out how in CJ’s current blog post 6AM AND IT’S A NEW DAY . . . OR IS IT?”

And, remember . . . Feed Your Good Dog so your good dog always wins!

Self-Empowerment Strengthens Self-Esteem and Self-Respect

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CJ Stewart, co-founder of L.E.A.D.“I chose to surround myself with experiences that strengthened my self-esteem and self-respect.” CJ Stewart, co-founder of L.E.A.D. on how he was able to work his way out of the inner city of Atlanta instead of giving into perceptions, both self-imposed and societal, that define young black males there.

Read CJ’s blog post “Sir Isaac Newton’s First Law of Motion, or How to Affect Change” to understand his perspective on:

  • Why he is qualified to speak on behalf of the black male population of Atlanta;
  • What a life of poverty does to a person, especially a young person, and what we can do to help change the debilitating effects of poverty on a person;
  • What Sir Isaac Newton’s First Law of Motion has to with the change he wants to see take place in Atlanta, especially for at-risk black youth living in the inner city;
  • How one’s perception plays into the perpetuation of racism;
  • Why it is important for him to acknowledge the existence of racism, and how that helps him lead an at-risk black youth living in the inner city of Atlanta; and
  • What he suggests about creating opportunities around Sunday worship that, he believes, will bring about a change in perception.

And, remember … Feed Your Good Dog so your good dog always wins!

L.E.A.D. Ambassadors – Time to Rise Up Atlanta – Here’s Why

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L.E.A.D. Ambassadors of the 2014-2015 Ambassador Class w/ Mike Hobbs (Partner, Troutman Sanders)Excerpt from co-founder of L.E.A.D., CJ Stewart’s, December 1, 2014, blog post

If we’re willing to be transparent, we all have agendas in Atlanta, including me. My agenda through L.E.A.D. (Launch, Expose, Advise, Direct) is to empower an at risk generation to lead and transform their City of Atlanta. As we continue to be successful as an organization, our L.E.A.D. Ambassadors will lead Atlanta to lead the world.

We have a lot of people in Atlanta doing a lot of great things while black males continue to drop out of high school and go to jail. How can this be?

Read co-founder of L.E.A.D., CJ Stewart’s, blog post “Have we reached 1st round draft pick status yet?” here

UGA Arch – Appearances Trump Equal Access

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Carden, Marquise and Khalid at UGA ArchThe University of Georgia would do well to demonstrate leadership as set forth in the following quote by Douglas McArthur rather than fail to lead at all in the matter of Equal Access at the UGA Arch:

“A true leader has the confidence to stand alone, the courage to make tough decisions, and the compassion to listen to the needs of others. He does not set out to be a leader, but (a true leader) becomes one by the equality of his actions and the integrity of his intent.” ~ Douglas McArthur

The University of Georgia administration is missing out on a huge opportunity to demonstrate compassionate leadership by coming up with a permanent solution of Equal Access at the UGA Arch – a solution that would fulfill its own requirements and meet the needs of all it serves. UGA administration claims that a permanent ramp solution would diminish the historical integrity of the Arch. Translated…the three concepts provided by the students leading this effort (Make UGA’s Arch Accessible) did not appeal to them so they closed the case, and offered a once a year temporary solution. This despite overwhelming community support for them to do otherwise.

If you attend, or are thinking about attending, the University of Georgia then you know about the Arch and the time honored tradition of not passing under the Arch until you have graduated and received a diploma. One of the stops on a UGA college campus tour for an aspiring Bulldawg is the Arch. If you have mobility impairments and approach the Arch on your tour and you hear of the Arch tradition, you can’t help wonder how you will participate in the tradition if you are accepted, and graduate.

That was the very thought Carden Wyckoff, Marquise Lane and Khalid Alsafadi had when they toured UGA as high school seniors – each with their own physical challenges. All three of these young people are UGA undergrads today. Instead of hoping for things to change, and for someone else to make it happen for them, they decided to take matters into their own hands. At the beginning of this year, they began to lobby and petition UGA for Equal Access to the Arch. This in addition to maintaining their own academic and social schedules, as well as getting through their personal daily routines made more rigorous than most by their personal physical challenges.

Following are some of their efforts to date:

  • Create and maintain Facebook page “Make UGA’s Arch Accessible” which has over 2400 likes;
  • Work with UGA Architects and the Disability Resource Center to come up with three concepts to provide permanent Equal Access at the Arch
  • Meeting with sororities, fraternities, and academic groups to discuss petition;
  • Proposed Equal Access Bill to SGA which passed March 25, 2014;
  • Create online petition on change.org and encourage 703 signatures;
  • Create paper petition and collect 4,000 signatures; and
  • Work with Media – Campaign was featured in UGA’s The Red & Black newspaper, Grady NewSource and soon to be Flagpole, Athens Banner Herald, and hopefully USA Today College

Despite these, and ongoing, efforts, UGA administration continues to deny permanent Equal Access at the Arch. UGA officials said that “After thorough review, the university has determined that there is no viable option for further permanent accommodation at the Arch that would not have an adverse effect by diminishing the historical integrity of the site.” Further, they said that “Previous reviews have determined that the Arch is accessible in its current configuration. People with disabilities may approach the Arch from the campus side, touch it, and have their photo taken beneath it.”

Based on their statements, it appears that UGA is worried about how the Arch would look should a ramp be put in place. Here are the three ramp concepts Carden, Marquise and Khalid helped to develop with UGA architects. Please click on image to see larger view.

rendering of ramp concept for UGA Archrendering of ramp concept for UGA Archrendering of ramp concept for UGA Arch

Further, UGA’s reasoning doesn’t address the issue of Equal Access, which would provide students with mobility impairments access to, through and around, the Arch from both sides just as UGA students without such impairments are able to do. In my opinion, their statement that the Arch is approachable from the campus side is insulting. Someone who is in a wheel chair, or uses a walker, or who wears special braces to be able to walk, who gets off of the bus on Broad Street at the Arch has the burden of going out of the way around the block to access the Arch. Take it a step further, it is unthinkable what happens if that same person is with a group of friends crossing Broad Street toward the Arch and Equal Access is not provided.

UGA agreed to a temporary structure in May at graduation. It is a start but not a good solution. Is graduation day the only time that someone with a degree from UGA may go through the Arch? I can see scenarios where Alumnae are visiting their children on campus, approach the Arch and joke about their ability to walk through the Arch while their children must go around to the sides. What happens when the Alumnae parent is in a wheelchair? Are they denied such a rare spontaneous family memory, or do they make the best of it and make their way around the block to access the Arch from the other side?

Historical image of UGA ArchThe pillars at the Arch stand for moderation, wisdom and justice. UGA would be wise to address the issue of Equal Access at the Arch and start looking at plans to rework the approach to the Arch that would be appealing to them and meet the needs of all it purports to serve. If you take a look at historical pictures of the Arch there were no steps. Steps and two electric lights were added in 1946, only 68 years ago. With today’s technological advances in construction and materials, together with new ADA policies, certainly there are cost effective ways to permanently alter the approach to the Arch from Broad Street that would not negatively impact its appearance. The good will rewards will outweigh any dollars spent. After all, the support for Equal Access at the Arch from the community, campus groups, students and media has been overwhelming. The only opposition to this effort appears to be from UGA administration.

Khalid Alsafadi put it well…”You have to give justice to all your students, not just the able-bodied ones. We all go through the same work and even have to go through more obstacles that we overcome, so we should be able to partake in the tradition.”

And, remember . . . Feed Your Good Dog so your good dog always wins!