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Express Yourself!

June 11, 2014 by Rose Caplan

Use Music, Dance and Art to Channel Expression

Express Yourself imageI can’t express myself. No, listen, really . . . what I mean is I can’t express myself. It is not that there is anything wrong with my vocals or that I lack vocabulary . . . I just can’t get the words out. Why? I don’t know but it is frustrating. Everyone around me is expressing themselves, and I stand there as their words fly by, trying to keep up. Wait, what did they say? What was that? Slow your words down so I can follow. What is wrong with me? Why can’t I follow the conversation? Time and time again. It is frustrating and painful.

I venture to say that there are too many people who have had a conversation in their head with themselves similar to this one. If it is not addressed it can lead to depression, risky behavior or even to acts of violence. It is through creative expression that some of us have found a way around the debilitating emotions we experience due to our inability to express ourselves.

Anna Clendening brought light to depression and anxiety last night as she took the stage on America’s Got Talent to perform one of my favorite songs – Leonard Cohen’s Hallelujah. Anna’s expression of Hallelujah stopped me in my tracks the minute she started singing. Not a big surprise that she was able to deliver the show stopper as she said that music was her answer to depression and anxiety. She was able to express herself through music in ways she could not otherwise. It was obvious . . . I could hear her feelings flow through the deeply emotional Hallelujah lyrics. You can watch her video on Youtube here.

Additionally, evidence that artistic expression works to alleviate the pain from depression and anxiety is in the work that is done with young people by Express Yourself out of Beverly, Massachusetts. Thank goodness for this organization for they provide young people an outlet for positive expression, a place where they can learn different modes of expression. Its signature program is a year-long “multi-disciplinary arts experience in collaboration with exciting visual and performing artists. Participation in the program encourages self-expression, uncovers individual strengths, and deepens connection.” You can find out more about it on Express Yourself’s website under Our Programs.

The very first benefit Express Yourself points to when describing what the young people in their program experience is the power of self-expression. They say that “We all have a need for self-expression, and by engaging in the creative process, our youth discover healthy ways to be seen and heard.” And, when we learn how to communicate effectively the depression, risky behavior and acts of violence are less likely to occur.

Yet funding for programs like these continues to be cut and hard to find. Thankfully, there are private funds and donations that allow these organizations to exist, but we need more.

Filed Under: Mind

No Complaints for a Happier Life

May 21, 2014 by Rose Caplan

Complaint Free World Book CoverWhat would life be like if we didn’t complain? According to Will Bowen in his book A Complaint Free World: How to Stop Complaining and Start Enjoying the Life You Always Wanted, we would feel happier, and the transformation to the experience of a happier life takes place when a person completes the Complaint Free challenge and becomes complaint free.

He says that even during the process of becoming Complaint Free, people often report that they feel happier long before they reach twenty-one consecutive days of being complaint free.

Once you start feeling happier, Bowen explains, “happiness compounds on itself because happy people tend to attract more positive people, joyful experiences, and opportunities than do unhappy people. As a result, they feel even happier, which draws more good things, and this wonderful cycle continues and expands.”
The Complaint Free challenge is simple in theory however not so easy when practiced. The process: commit to 21 days of being complaint free. Hold yourself accountable by wearing a Complaint Free bracelet, or a rubber band, on your wrist and change it from one wrist to the other every time you complain. As simple as it sounds, it can take many months to complete 21 days of being complaint free.

Bowen does a good job explaining the challenge process, how we are changed by it, and how to get through it. Inspirational quotes, and testimonials from those who completed the challenge, appear throughout the book to provide motivation to keep the challenge going.

Me? I’m wearing the bracelet and still on day one but remain inspired by the good feeling I get each time I change the bracelet from one wrist to the other knowing that I am growing in the direction of a happy and more fulfilling life. How about you?

Filed Under: Mind Tagged With: Complaint Free World, happiness

Monday Motivational Quote

December 9, 2012 by Rose Caplan

“Be kind to one another.” ~Ellen DeGeneres

And, remember…Feed Your Good Dog, so your good dog always wins!

Filed Under: General, Mind, Monday Motivational Quotes Tagged With: kind words, Monday Motivational Quote

Monday Motivational Quote

April 30, 2012 by Rose Caplan

“More important than learning how to recall things is finding ways to forget things that are cluttering the mind.” ~Eric Butterworth

Source: Mind Over Clutter

And, remember…Feed Your Good Dog, so your good dog always wins!

Filed Under: Mind, Monday Motivational Quotes Tagged With: feed your good dog, unclutter mind

Monday Motivational Quote

November 28, 2011 by Rose Caplan

We are what we repeatedly do; excellence, then, is not an act but a habit. ~Aristotle

Source: Litemind

And, remember…Feed Your Good Dog, so your good dog always wins!

Filed Under: Mind, Monday Motivational Quotes Tagged With: excellence, habit, Monday Motivational Quote

Monday Motivational Quotes

August 15, 2011 by Rose Caplan

“The freedom to move forward to new opportunities and to produce results comes from living in the present not the past.” ~Brian Koslow

Source: thinkexist.com

And, remember…Feed Your Good Dog, so your good dog always wins!

Filed Under: General, Mind, Monday Motivational Quotes

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